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View Poll Results: Which is the less emotional and painful
Sell everything and start over 3 30.00%
Kick her out and pay out her half 7 70.00%
leave everything and move in with one of the girlfriends 0 0%
Hang yourself 0 0%
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post #21 of 44 Old 02-15-2019, 07:08 PM
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My sweet Bonny wouldn't know a snowblower from a rototiller but it doesn't matter. I don't expect her to know about or use that stuff. She keeps our house nice and clean. A good cook, keeps all my clothes clean and so much more. I can buy all the OPE I want and she just rolls her eyes. Sometimes she even finds blowers or other stuff for me and lets me know about them. We have our moments as do.all marriages but, being married to her I feel like I've won the lottery. I truly wish all married men had it as good as I do.
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No one is voting because there is not a NONE OF THE ABOVE OPTION!!!!!!!
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She's on the couch snoring... nobody is voting... only thing saving me right now is my new girl. She just called, will let you know tomorrow how things went!!!
If I am reading this correctly, you are already snow blowing another driveway. It's already over. Get yourself a good lawyer because she will find out somehow that you have a new woman. Your blood letting has just begun. Unless of course, you are talking about a new snowblower. I'm 60, and I wouldn't call another woman a girl, so that's what leaves me confused.

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I truly wish all married men had it as good as I do.

Pretty close! 35 yrs and still sleeping in the same bed. And I do the cook'n! We're probably closer now than we ever wuz. Maybe cuz we both come from broken families...

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If I am reading this correctly, you are already snow blowing another driveway. It's already over. Get yourself a good lawyer because she will find out somehow that you have a new woman. Your blood letting has just begun. Unless of course, you are talking about a new snowblower. I'm 60, and I wouldn't call another woman a girl, so that's what leaves me confused.
It ain't over yet. As long as there's even the slightest chance (and I personally believe there is, since the question was even asked) there is hope. Hang in there and go to work to make it work.

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Only input I have is that if it time to go, then go. It's not going to painless but its better in the long run than sitting under the same roof hating each other.
Too many domestic situations turn ugly that way.
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Girlfriend definition: Temporary partner situation that might or might not be something long-term.
Wife definition: Permanent partner situation where both made a legal and moral commitment to work things out together if the going gets rough.
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It ain't over yet. As long as there's even the slightest chance (and I personally believe there is, since the question was even asked) there is hope. Hang in there and go to work to make it work.

One thing I know for sure is....I have had many jobs, and been successful at most of them. But the hardest job I have EVER had is being married and staying married. Truth.

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One thing I know for sure is....I have had many jobs, and been successful at most of them. But the hardest job I have EVER had is being married and staying married. Truth.
Yep. Like I said... Work, but it is a labor of love.

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Coby, I've been married for five years (in my 20's) and divorced since 1985. I have not remarried and now live with a partner. Marriage is a legal right to sue someone and I don't need that. I remember what it was like to be in a bad marriage and don't want to go back there again. If you are unhappy and don't love your wife anymore and have a woman on the side, then I think a divorce is both necessary and rational. There is no need to stay with someone you don't love and I'd argue that cheating behind her back is more damaging emotionally than getting a divorce. You seem like you have the assets to go ahead and split 50/50. It's a much better life, to be sure. Sometimes it's lonely, but it's a lot better than living with someone who does not love you or that you do not love anymore.

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